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Sep

Quick & Easy Energy Boosters to Avoid Boredom Eating

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Click here to download the Boredom Eating Handout

Feeling bored? Are you dragging yourself around? Do you wander into the kitchen to entertain yourself or perk up your mood? Try one of these energy boosters—without the negative effects or addictive qualities that come from food or lots of caffeine:

  • Stretch your chest. Stand in the middle of a doorway and place your palms flat against the wall on either side of the doorframe. Make sure your back is straight. Lean forward through the doorway without moving your hands. You should feel a stretch across your chest. Move your hands higher or lower to stretch different areas of your chest.
  • Stretch your arms. Stand facing a solid wall. Place your right hand flat against the wall, and lift your left leg slightly so that most of your weight is in your standing leg and some weight is supported by the wall through your arm. Tighten your abdominals and keep your back straight. Lightly touch the fingers of your left hand to the arm pit of your right arm, then reach out and up until your left arm is reaching straight overhead, fingers pointing toward the ceiling. Keep your right shoulder blade down. Hold for 5 seconds and repeat 10 to 15 times. Switch sides.
  • Breathe faster. This will get your oxygen pumping.
  • Change your scenery. Your senses can get accustomed to your surroundings, and simply changing environments can perk them up.
  • Enliven your legs. Lie on your back and raise one leg and then the other till they are both in the air. Now shake them for a minute or two.
  • Mindfully drink green tea. A cup of green tea has properties that are proven to boost alertness (Chacko et al. 2010; Yoto et al. 2014).
  • Stand instead of sit. Sitting is the new smoking—long-term sitting can sabotage your health. Step away from your desk whenever you can, since sitting still for too long can drag you down. Standing up can help counteract the effects of inertia. You can alternate sitting and standing for a minute at a time to get your blood flowing.
  • Chew gum. Gum has been shown to stimulate the brain waves that ignite concentration and focus. In fact, studies show that chewing gum can shift your brain waves to a state of relaxed alertness (Allen, Jacob, and Smith 2014).
  • Self Massage. Begin by sitting upright in a chair. Then, roll your foot over one of the following: A frozen water bottle, a broom handle, or a tennis ball. Or buy a foot roller/massager from a natural health store.

There are many other tips that are just as simple and effective in my new book, 50 More Ways to Soothe Yourself Without Food. Click here to pre-order it.

30
Dec

Thank you, Mindful Eating in 2014!

A Mindful Thank You and a Recap of 2014!

Bye, bye 2014. I want to take a moment to express sincere gratitude for this amazing year. Yes, there was a LOT of hard work, some bumps along the way AND many awesome, mindful moments that I have to pause and acknowledge.

1) The Mindful Eating Summit. It was so exciting interviewing some of the most amazing mindful eating experts. The overwhelming feedback was fantastic! You gave many great suggestions for next year! P.S. Don’t forget to sign up right now for the Mindful Eating Summit 2.0 in August coming up next year! It will be even better. www.mindfuleatingsummit.com ET

2) The Chocolate Challenge. Thank you to the awesome fans and fun bloggers who participated in February. What a yummy way to practice mindful eating.

3) 1/2 Marathon on the Great Wall of China. Doing this marathon was a good metaphor for my 2014 year. Sometimes it is better not to know what you are getting yourself into and just say, “Yes! I’m game.” The marathon and the year were steep and mostly uphill but the view was amazing and simply breathtaking. At the end, I am 100% glad I did it. marathonphoto - Copy

4) EatQ reaching NYT bestseller status. Yes, it only took 14 years of diligent writing but whose counting! I am so profoundly grateful for the opportunity to share the message of mindful eating with so many people around the globe. NYCCOVER

5) Getting to snuggle back into my writing den (I love writing!) and starting my new book which will be out in October 2015. Sign up on facebook in April for my Emotional Eating Summit!

6) I admire and appreciate the people I work with directly/and readers who send emails/facebook fans. Hardest working and bravest people ever.

Are you READY for a brand new mindful eating year! Follow me on a new adventure. I can’t wait to share what opportunities I have in store for you!

Task number one if you haven’t done so already, PRINT out the 2015 Mindful Eating Pledge and hang it up.

CLICK HERE for FREE DOWNLOAD! https://mindfuleatingsummit.com/mindful-eating-pledge-2015-2/

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2
Sep

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Hello!
Thank you for your interest in the Professional EatQ Tool Kit! With this Kit you will receive the
1) A ppt download and recording with a brief explanation of how to use EatQ with your clients
2) The Emotional Eater’s Toolkit Download
3) EatQ Study Guide–outlining 8 sessions done for you!
4) BONUS access to the Mindful Eating Summit interviews until Oct 7th (see www.mindfuleatingsummit.com) to see the lineup of amazing speakers!

How to get it? Just email your receipt from Amazon or Barnes & Noble to DrAlbers@eatq.com to have the Professional Kit sent directly to you!

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Aug

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My friend and colleague, Dr. Susan Albers, author of Eating Mindfully and Cleveland Clinic psychologist, has put together a fantastic FREE event with 20 of the world’s top leading eating experts to share information that you won’t hear anywhere else. It will teach you how to boost your nutrition, end mindless overeating and stop feeling guilty when you eat TODAY!
Where can people learn more about mindful eating?

Here are just a few of the presenters in my conference, all of whom offer their own rich, in-depth perspective on health, wellness and mindfulness:
-Dr. Brian Wansink Director of Cornell Food & Brand Lab and best-selling author of Mindless Eating: Why We Eat More Than We Think
-Evelyn Tribole Award-winning registered dietitian an author of Intuitive Eating (co-author)
-Dr. Jim Painter Producer of Portion Size Me, a documentary about fast food and health and featured on CBS’s Early Show
-Margaret Floyd, author of Eat Naked.
-Dr. Katz, author of Disease Proof and contributor to O, the Oprah Magazine
-Dr. Daniel Siegel, Professor of at the UCLA School of Medicine and the founding co-director of the Mindful Awareness Research Center.
-Dr. Alan Christianson specializes in natural endocrinology with a focus on thyroid disorders.
-Jonathan Bailor, author of The Calorie Myth
-Trudy Scott, author of The Anti-Anxiety Food Solution and the upcoming Anxiety Summit in November
-Connie Bennett, sugar expert!
AND MORE!

You can sign up here:
When you do, you will also receive a FREE Ebook: The Emotional Eater’s Tool Kit so you can start taking charge of your eating right NOW!
I will see you there on August 25th-29th!

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Do you FINALLY want sound, realistic, practical answers on how you can ditch dieting for good and start eating more mindfully today? If so, sign up for the Mindful Eating Summit taking place August 25th-29th!
It’s a free event hosted by Susan Albers, the author of Eating Mindfully and Cleveland Clinic psychologist. I’m one of 20 speakers that will blow you away with the amazing information we have to share on how to transform your eating!
Here’s that link again:
See you there!

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Ditch dieting for good! 20 of the world’s top eating experts share their best-kept secrets on weight loss, mindful eating, diabetes, nutrition, emotional eating, cravings, and more August 25th-29th! Check it out for FREE here:
Get your free ebook, the Emotional Eating Tool Kit, when you sign up for an amazing new free, online summit taking place August 25th-29th! The Mindful Eating Summit brings together a panel of eating experts to give you all of the insider information that nobody else is telling you on how to boost your nutrition, stop overeating and transform your relationship to food! Register today to learn the truth about eating well and step-by-step tips. Grab your seat now!

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Join me and 20 other eating experts as we reveal our insider secrets to healing your relationship with food. Come watch my interview today TODAY during the Mindful Eating Summit! I’m sharing my top secrets on X, Y, and Z! See you there:

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Confused by all the conflicting information about how to eat out there? Bust through the diet myths with the FREE Mindful Eating Summit taking place August 25th-29th! Enroll today to STOP struggling with food and START enjoying eating again TODAY:

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Did you know that 95% of dieters gain back the weight they lost within 5 years (plus some!). It’s no surprise that DIETING DOESN’T WORK.
The good news is that my friend, Dr. Susan Albers, Cleveland Clinic psychologist and author of Eating Mindfully, put together a panel of experts who will show you WHAT DOES WORK!
Why? Because these statistics are staggering and they are no longer ok! Fad diets destroy your health & leaving you feeling hopeless and frustrated.
If you want to finally take charge of your eating, then I have something very exciting to share with you!
Join this amazing FREE event with 20 of the world’s top leading health experts.
It’s called the Mindful Eating Summit and it will change everything you thought you knew about how to eat!
Did I mention it’s FREE?
Go to sign up now!

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Have you registered for the FREE Mindful Eating Summit yet? Join us August 25th-29th as we start conversations with 20+ eating experts. This highly unique event will showcase the voices of 20+ top professionals (researchers, clinicians, dietitians, therapists, writers). This will include the world’s thought-leaders in Mindful Eating Psychology. The goal is to deliver practical, inspirational, cutting-edge, clinical techniques, and innovative approaches to many of our unique eating challenges– body image, nourishing ourselves, overeating, binge eating, disordered eating, fad dieting, nutrition-linked health conditions, and much more. The mission: to educate and inform the public and professionals about mindful eating in a free and easily accessible format. SIGN UP HERE: www.mindfuleatingsummit.com

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Do you want to eat more mindfully, lose/manage weight, and stop emotional eating? Dr. Susan Albers, psychologist at the Cleveland Clinic and author of Eating Mindfully, is hosting the 1st Annual Mindful Eating Summit, a free online event August 25th-29th. You can sign up for free today on www.mindfuleatingsummit.com. All viewers receive a free ebook, The Emotional Eating’s Tool Kit!

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Have you registered for the FREE Mindful Eating Summit yet? Join us August 25th-29th as we start conversations with 20+ eating experts. This highly unique event will showcase the voices of 20+ top professionals (researchers, clinicians, dietitians, therapists, writers). This will include the world’s thought-leaders in Mindful Eating Psychology. The goal is to deliver practical, inspirational, cutting-edge, clinical techniques, and innovative approaches to many of our unique eating challenges– body image, nourishing ourselves, overeating, binge eating, disordered eating, fad dieting, nutrition-linked health conditions, and much more. The mission: to educate and inform the public and professionals about mindful eating in a free and easily accessible format. SIGN UP HERE: www.mindfuleatingsummit.com

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Free ebook! The Eating Eater’s Tool Kit is yours when you sign up for the 1st Annual, free online Mindful Eating Summit, August 25th-29th. This highly unique event will showcase the voices of 20+ top professionals (researchers, clinicians, dietitians, therapists, writers). This will include the world’s thought-leaders in Mindful Eating Psychology. The mission is to deliver practical, inspirational, cutting-edge, clinical techniques, and innovative approaches to many of our unique eating challenges– body image, nourishing ourselves, overeating, binge eating, disordered eating, fad dieting, nutrition-linked health conditions, and much more. www.mindfuleatingsummit.com

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August 25th-29th @DrSusanAlbers will host free online, www.mindfuleatingsummit.com featuring +20 eating experts. Sign up today!

Who is the host?
Dr. Susan Albers is a clinical psychologist at the Cleveland Clinic and author of six books on mindful eating including EatQ: How to Unlock the Weight Loss Power of Emotional Intelligence, Eating Mindfully, Mindful Eating 101, Eat, Drink & Be Mindful, 50 Ways to Soothe Yourself Without Food, But I Deserve this Chocolate. She graduated from the University of Denver and completed a post-doctoral fellowship at Stanford University. You may recognize her from Dr. Oz or have read about her in Shape, Fitness, Self Magazine, Prevention etc where she is frequently quoted. “Like” her facebook page for updates on the Summit www.facebook.com/eatdrinkmindful

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This highly unique event will showcase the voices of 20+ top professionals (researchers, clinicians, dietitians, therapists, writers). This will include the world’s thought-leaders in Mindful Eating Psychology. The goal is to deliver practical, inspirational, cutting-edge, clinical techniques, and innovative approaches to many of our unique eating challenges– body image, nourishing ourselves, overeating, binge eating, disordered eating, fad dieting, nutrition-linked health conditions, and much more. The goal: to educate and inform the public and professionals about mindful eating in a free and easily accessible format. SIGN UP HERE: www.mindfuleatingsummit.com

ARTICLE #1
6 Ways to Become a Mindful Eater
By Dr. Susan Albers, psychologist and author of Eating Mindfully & EatQ

Do you want to ditch dieting for good but aren’t sure what to do instead? Mindful eating may be the answer for you. Consider that 95% of dieters gain back the weight they’ve lost within five years. In contrast, clinical studies have shown mindful eating to help people eat 300 less calories a day, reduce their body mass index, feel better about their bodies, prevent weight gain and have a better relationship with food. The good news is that mindful eating is not hard. Read this list to discover some of the most important things a mindful eater does on a daily basis.

1) Mindful eaters don’t eat until they are “full.” Full is an overused and misleading term. Mindful eaters tend to eat until they are no longer hungry or feel satisfied. There is a big difference. By the time you perceive yourself to be “full,” it is often too late, you’ve overeaten. If you’ve dieted for years, your hunger and fullness signals may be crossed. Mindful eating can help rewire your brain to know what genuine physical hunger feels like.

2) Mindful eaters pace themselves. This is not easy. We live in a world that stresses instant access and hurrying; eating is no exception. Mindful eaters tell themselves to “slow down” or try to check in with their pace. Intentionally shifting into a reasonable pace is often easier said than done. How to slow down while you eat is going to be a hot topic at the Mindful Eating Summit where 20+ mindful eating experts will share their knowledge for free this summer. Find out more by clicking here.

3) Mindful eaters are “Choosy.” While mindful eaters may seem like picky eaters, they are often just very discerning about the choices. Mindful eaters really taste food and if they don’t like it, they don’t eat it, just like picky eaters. Also, they aren’t afraid to tailor food to their particular taste. At restaurants, a mindful eater may ask the wait staff to make a few tweaks to their order like holding the bacon or asking for Swiss cheese rather than Cheddar.

4) Mindful eaters are forgiving and flexible. Yes, mindful eaters overeat on occasion! What they don’t do is obsess and beat themselves up as much as dieters. Mindful eaters know that tomorrow is another day and can “let it go.“ Often the strategy is to adjust the amount you eat at the next meal or snack.

5) Mindful eaters tend to gauge their hunger first before taking a bite. Being in the moment and fully present is key to mindful eating. Take a brief moment to ask yourself before taking a bite, “Am I really, really hungry? What I am feeling right now is…” This can help prevent you from walking into emotional eating.

6) Mindful eaters break out of old habits. When you know what habits keep you stuck like multitasking when you eat or nibbling while anxious, you can devote more energy and attention to these particular areas. Sometimes it is changing how you eat more than what you eat.

Is it worth it to adopt these habits? Yes! Hundreds of thousands of people have done it and so can you. To learn more about how a mindful eater thinks and feels, take the Emotional Eating IQ Test

Dr. Susan Albers is a psychologist at the Cleveland Clinic and the author of six books on mindful eating including Eat.Q: Unlock the Weight Loss Power of Emotional Intelligence. She has been quoted in the New York Times, Self, O Magazine, Shape, Fitness, and on the Dr. Oz show. www.eatq.com

ARTICLE #2

HOW TO DITCH DIETING & TAKE THE MINDFUL EATING PLEDGE

If you are one of the millions of people contemplating starting a new diet, you are invited to try something radically different this fall. Instead, take the Mindful Eating Pledge which outlines five straightforward behavior changes that can help you easily shift out of overeating and onto a healthier new foot.

Put simply, mindful eating is about eating with more awareness. This method of eating aims to stop mindless eating behaviors like unconsciously popping food into your mouth while watching T.V. or eating out of a carton of ice cream to ease stress. Studies show that reducing these behaviors can have a significant impact on improving your health and weight.

The Mindful Eating pledge is good news for people who feel frustrated or hopeless with fad diets. Outcome goals (I want to lose five pounds) lead to frustration and are quickly abandoned because they are long term and you can’t control whether they happen. Process goals (eat without distraction) is something you can take charge of and have immediate benefits in the moment such as enjoying food more and reducing the risk of overeating.
Here is a list of the five things you agree to do:

I Pledge To:
• Eat Mindfully—be more aware of each bite I take
• Pace Not Race—eat slowly and with intention Pace Not Race—eat slowly and with intention
• When I Eat, Just Eat—eat without distraction
• Calm Without Calories—find true comfort and soothing without food
• Eat Less, Nourish More—eat foods that nurture my body

Changing the way you eat isn’t easy. But doing it with intention and a smart strategy can make it simpler and within reach. So put away the diet books and calorie counting. Sign up to take the Pledge, and you will get free Mindful Eating Tools sent right to your inbox throughout the year on www.eatq.com. You can download the pledge and hang it up! Feel free to pass it on.

ALSO, sign up for the MINDFUL EATING SUMMIT. Dr. Susan Albers, psychologist at the Cleveland Clinic and author of Eating Mindfully, is hosting the 1st Annual Mindful Eating Summit. This highly unique event will showcase the voices of 20+ top professionals (researchers, clinicians, dietitians, therapists, writers). This will include the world’s thought-leaders in Mindful Eating Psychology. The goal is to deliver practical, inspirational, cutting-edge, clinical techniques, and innovative approaches to many of our unique eating challenges–body image, nourishing ourselves, overeating, binge eating, disordered eating, fad dieting, nutrition-linked health conditions, and much more. SIGN UP HERE: www.mindfuleatingsummit.com

ARTICLE #3 “Mindful Eating Changed My Life!” (& I Lost 27lbs!)

Every single day I receive amazing emails from people all over the world who are eager to share their story. They explain the many ways mindful eating has changed their life. Let me introduce you to Heather! She is one of the many people who sing the praises of mindful eating. Here is what Heather had to say about the benefits:

1. Dr. Albers: How as mindful eating been helpful to you/changed your life?
Heather: Being mindful to me is a life-long process/practice. Being in-the-moment and having a fun relationship with food. Food is not the enemy, the enemy is between our ears! I went to my nutritionist today and I am down 27 pounds. I know I shouldn’t be focused on the numbers but I want to give a shout out to being a practicing mindful eater.

2. Dr. Albers: Were there difficult aspects that you had to overcoming when learning to eat more mindfully?
Heather: Working around gym folks for part of my day you can say that the diet word comes up almost everyday. Many people have an, “Eat this, don’t eat that approach.” Being mindful allows one to choose what goes in your mouth whether you desire an apple or a bag of chips. That boggled my mind that if I want chocolate lava cake I can have it within the mindful eating guidelines. Which include am I hungry? Is this what I really want? Am I eating this because of emotional reasons etc.

3) Dr. Albers: Who has been helpful/supportive in this new way of eating (ex. friends family etc.)?
Heather: I went to a nutritionist/dietitian who specializes in eating disorders. Her name is Courtney Sansonetti. During my first visit with her, I was waiting for her to place the new and improved diet plan in front of me. Her first words out of her mouth was “I am not putting you on a diet because they don’t work.” She then introduced me to this mindful eating mentality. I was looking at her credentials on her wall because she just said, “No diets!!!!” What!!!!! My second thought was, “She crazy, one of those holistic nuts.” Right after thinking that she said and I quote, “I know it sounds out there, but it’s very practical.” “Great,” I said to myself, she reads minds too. I’m sure my facial expression didn’t help. After listening to her she asked me to go to the book store and to look up Mindful eating and so this is how I stumbled onto Susan Albers books. Haven’t been able to put down her books since then.

4. Dr. Albers: What are your favorite mindful eating tips?

Heather: There are so many helpful tips to choose from. I would have to say really being in-the-moment when eating. Giving eating my undivided attention, no distractions! Also, breathing and knowing that when I exhale my food will still be there!

5. Dr. Albers: How long have you been trying to eat more mindfully?

Heather: I think I’ve been doing mindful eating for three month now. It is a journey because as my nutritionist told me I will have to readjust from time to time. Nobody changes like a light switch. She also, said that each meal is another opportunity to be mindful and all other ways of thinking are a waste of time.
Way to go Heather! Thank you for sharing your inspiring journey toward mindful eating!

ARTICLE #4
The Surprising Benefits of Mindful Eating

Mindful eating is no longer a secret! If you checked out the New York Times article entitled “Mindful Eating as Food for Thought,” it’s likely that it left you “hungry” for more information on how to adopt this healthy, healing way of eating. Mindful eating uses the ancient art of mindfulness, or being present, to help cope with modern eating problems. It’s not a diet. There are no menus or food restrictions. It is developing a new mindset around food.

The good news is that mindful eating can help binge eaters as well as many other eating issues. During the past 20 years, studies have found that mindful eating can help you to 1) reduce overeating and binge eating[1], 2) lose weight and reduce your body mass index (BMI)[2], 3) cope with chronic eating problems such as anorexia and bulimia, and reduce anxious thoughts about food and your body[3] and 4) improve the symptoms of Type 2 diabetes.[4] Thus, it has many benefits!

Intuitively, it makes sense that mindful eating is helpful to overeaters. It slows you down, makes you more aware of portion sizes and helps you get out of negative, automatic food habits like overeating while watching your favorite TV show. So how does it also help people who have other problematic eating habits?
In a nutshell, whether you are overeating or being overly restrictive when you diet, it’s likely that you have lost track of your hunger and fullness. This break between your body and mind needs to be healed. Mindful eating can generally help in three ways:

1) Mindful eating plugs you back into your body’s cues so you know when to stop and start eating. This can be such a difficult task if your sense of hunger and fullness has been skewed or warped by large restaurant portions, fad diets or comfort eating.

2) Being mindful can bring about better management of your emotions. Sometimes people restrict or overeat as a way to cope with negative feelings. Eating and not eating can distract you from your worries. When you have healthier ways of coping, such as mindful breathing and letting go of anxiety, you may no longer manage your emotions through your food choices. You can tolerate your emotions, as uncomfortable as they may be, without pushing them away or stuffing them down with food.

3) Mindfulness changes the way you think. Rather than reacting to food-related thoughts that urge you to overeat, overly restrict your diet or emotionally eat, etc., you respond to them. You can hear these thoughts without obeying them.
So if you aren’t binge eating, don’t worry. Mindful eating can be helpful to almost everyone.
2 Ways to Get Started

1) Just Be Mindful. Being more attentive and aware in all aspects of your life can help you to improve your eating habits. This is good news if you aren’t ready to change what you put on your plate. Start by being more mentally present with your significant other, put away your cell phone and be more engaged with what you are doing and do one thing at a time instead of multitasking. When you are ready to change your meal habits, you will have more practice on how to be attentive and present. It’s easy to eat an entire plate of food and not taste one bite.

2) The Four Mindful Points: Check in with each dimension of mindfulness. When you eat, ask yourself these questions:
1. Mind: Am I tasting each bite or am I zoned out when I eat?
2. Body: How does my body feel before and after I eat? Low energy? Stomach rumbling? Full? Empty?
3. Feeling: What do I feel about this food? Guilty? Pleasure? Joy? Disappointment? Regret?
4.Thoughts: What thoughts does this food bring to mind? Memories? Beliefs? Myths? Fears?
Thank you for the fantastic article on mindful eating! We need to continue to spread the word that diets don’t work. Instead, mindful eating may be one key to turning around all of our unhealthy eating patterns. Eat, drink and be mindful!
[1] Kristeller J. L. and R. Q. Wolever. 2011. “Mindfulness-Based Eating Awareness Training for Treating Binge Eating Disorder: The Conceptual Foundation.” Eating Disorders. 19(1): 49-61.
Baer, R. A., S. Fischer, and D. B. Huss. 2005. “Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy Applied to Binge Eating: A Case Study.” Cognitive and Behavioral Practice 12: 351-358.
[2] Tapper, K., C. Shaw, J. Ilsley, A. J. Hill, F. W. Bond, and L. Moore. 2009. “Exploratory Randomised Controlled Trial of a Mindfulness-Based Weight Loss Intervention for Women.” Appetite. 52(2): 396-404.
Dalen J., B. W. Smith, B. M. Shelley, A. L. Sloan, L. Leahigh, and D. Begay. 2010. “Pilot Study: Mindful Eating and Living (MEAL): Weight, Eating Behavior, and Psychological Outcomes Associated with a Mindfulness-Based Intervention for People with Obesity.” Complementary Therapies in Medicine. 18(6): 260-4.
Framson, C., A. R. Kristal, J. M. Schenk, A. J. Littman, S. Zeliadt, and D. Benitez. 2009. “Development and Validation of the Mindful Eating Questionnaire.” Journal of American Dietetic Association. 1439-1444.
[3] Rawal, A., J. Enayati, M. Williams, and R. Park. 2009. “A Mindful Approach to Eating Disorders.” Healthcare Counseling & Psychotherapy Journal. 9(4): 16-20.
Proulx, K. 2008. “Experiences of Women with Bulimia Nervosa in a Mindfulness-Based Eating Disorder Treatment Group.” Eating Disorders. 16(1): 52-72.
Hepworth, N. S. 2011. “A Mindful Eating Group as an Adjunct to Individual Treatment for Eating Disorders: A Pilot Study.” Eating Disorders. 19(1): 6-16.
[4] Faude-Lang V., M. Hartmann, E. M. Schmidt, P. Humpert , P. Nawroth, and W. Herzog. 2010. “Acceptance- and Mindfulness-Based Group Intervention in Advanced Type 2 Diabetes Patients: Therapeutic Concept and Practical Experiences.” Psychotherapy and Psychosomatics in Medical Psychology. 60(5): 185-9.

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Jul

“Mindful Eating Changed My Life!” (& I Lost 27lbs!)

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Every single day I receive amazing emails from people all over the world who are eager to share their story. They explain the many ways mindful eating has changed their life. Let me introduce you to Heather! She is one of the many people who sing the praises of mindful eating. Here is what Heather had to say about the benefits:


1. Dr. Albers:
How as mindful eating been helpful to you/changed your life?

Heather: Being mindful to me is a life-long process/practice. Being in-the-moment and having a fun relationship with food. Food is not the enemy, the enemy is between our ears! I went to my nutritionist today and I am down 27 pounds. I know I shouldn’t be focused on the numbers but I want to give a shout out to being a practicing mindful eater.

2. Dr. Albers: Were there difficult aspects that you had to overcoming when learning to eat more mindfully?

Heather: Working around gym folks for part of my day you can say that the diet word comes up almost everyday. Many people have an, “Eat this, don’t eat that approach.” Being mindful allows one to choose what goes in your mouth whether you desire an apple or a bag of chips. That boggled my mind that if I want chocolate lava cake I can have it within the mindful eating guidelines. Which include am I hungry? Is this what I really want? Am I eating this because of emotional reasons etc.

3) Dr. Albers: Who has been helpful/supportive in this new way of eating (ex. friends family etc.)?

Heather: I went to a nutritionist/dietitian who specializes in eating disorders. Her name is Courtney Sansonetti. During my first visit with her, I was waiting for her to place the new and improved diet plan in front of me. Her first words out of her mouth was “I am not putting you on a diet because they don’t work.” She then introduced me to this mindful eating mentality. I was looking at her credentials on her wall because she just said, “No diets!!!!” What!!!!! My second thought was, “She crazy, one of those holistic nuts.” Right after thinking that she said and I quote, “I know it sounds out there, but it’s very practical.” “Great,” I said to myself, she reads minds too. I’m sure my facial expression didn’t help. After listening to her she asked me to go to the book store and to look up Mindful eating and so this is how I stumbled onto Susan Albers books. Haven’t been able to put down her books since then.

4. Dr. Albers: What are your favorite mindful eating tips?

Heather:
There are so many helpful tips to choose from. I would have to say really being in-the-moment when eating. Giving eating my undivided attention, no distractions! Also, breathing and knowing that when I exhale my food will still be there!

5. Dr. Albers: How long have you been trying to eat more mindfully?

Heather: I think I’ve been doing mindful eating for three month now. It is a journey because as my nutritionist told me I will have to readjust from time to time. Nobody changes like a light switch. She also, said that each meal is another opportunity to be mindful and all other ways of thinking are a waste of time.

Way to go Heather! Thank you for sharing your inspiring journey toward mindful eating!

13
Jul

6 Ways to Become a Mindful Eater

Do you want to ditch dieting for good but aren’t sure what to do instead? Mindful eating may be the answer for you. Consider that 95% of dieters gain back the weight they’ve lost within five years. In contrast, clinical studies have shown mindful eating to help people eat 300 less calories a day, reduce their body mass index, feel better about their bodies, prevent weight gain and have a better relationship with food. The good news is that mindful eating is not hard. Read this list to discover some of the most important things a mindful eater does on a daily basis.

1) Mindful eaters don’t eat until they are “full.” Full is an overused and misleading term. Mindful eaters tend to eat until they are no longer hungry or feel satisfied. There is a big difference. By the time you perceive yourself to be “full,” it is often too late, you’ve overeaten. If you’ve dieted for years, your hunger and fullness signals may be crossed. Mindful eating can help rewire your brain to know what genuine physical hunger feels like.

2) Mindful eaters pace themselves. This is not easy. We live in a world that stresses instant access and hurrying; eating is no exception. Mindful eaters tell themselves to “slow down” or try to check in with their pace. Intentionally shifting into a reasonable pace is often easier said than done. How to slow down while you eat is going to be a hot topic at the Mindful Eating Summit where 20+ mindful eating experts will share their knowledge for free this summer. Find out more by clicking here.

3) Mindful eaters are “Choosy.” While mindful eaters may seem like picky eaters, they are often just very discerning about the choices. Mindful eaters really taste food and if they don’t like it, they don’t eat it, just like picky eaters. Also, they aren’t afraid to tailor food to their particular taste. At restaurants, a mindful eater may ask the wait staff to make a few tweaks to their order like holding the bacon or asking for Swiss cheese rather than Cheddar.

4) Mindful eaters are forgiving and flexible. Yes, mindful eaters overeat on occasion! What they don’t do is obsess and beat themselves up as much as dieters. Mindful eaters know that tomorrow is another day and can “let it go.“ Often the strategy is to adjust the amount you eat at the next meal or snack.

5) Mindful eaters tend to gauge their hunger first before taking a bite. Being in the moment and fully present is key to mindful eating. Take a brief moment to ask yourself before taking a bite, “Am I really, really hungry? What I am feeling right now is…” This can help prevent you from walking into emotional eating.

6) Mindful eaters break out of old habits. When you know what habits keep you stuck like multitasking when you eat or nibbling while anxious, you can devote more energy and attention to these particular areas. Sometimes it is changing how you eat more than what you eat.

Is it worth it to adopt these habits? Yes! Hundreds of thousands of people have done it and so can you. To learn more about how a mindful eater thinks and feels, take the Emotional Eating IQ Test

Dr. Susan Albers is a psychologist at the Cleveland Clinic and the author of six books on mindful eating including Eat.Q: Unlock the Weight Loss Power of Emotional Intelligence. She has been quoted in the New York Times, Self, O Magazine, Shape, Fitness, and on the Dr. Oz show. www.eatq.com

23
May

A Mindful Good Morning Minute

A mindful good morning hello from Dr. Susan Albers!

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17
Mar

2 EatQ Exercises!

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Mar

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28
Feb

What a Difference a Month Makes

I started this month simply thrilled with my free bag of chocolate! I honestly didn’t know what to expect from Dr. Albers’ mindfulness experiment. I was looking forward to doing some just-for-fun writing and of course some delicious eating. I figured if I gained any knowledge about myself or my eating habits, it would be a wonderful bonus. No matter what, I said to myself on Feb. 1, you get to keep the chocolate

Yet in spite of my rather low expectations, I did learn a lot this month. It was fun this morning to read through all my posts from start to finish and laugh at the way I tore into the chocolate at the first stressful moment, just a few weeks ago. Now, I’ve not exactly become a Zen master, but I have figured out a few things, which I will share:

  • Cravings pass quickly. Sure, when you’re in the middle of one, it seems like there’s no way you can survive without eating your unhealthy food of choice. But, just as fast as a craving comes on, it can disappear. Hence, the need to pause first, before giving in. Remember when I poo-pooed Dr. Albers’ Chocolate Craving Meter and made up my own? At the beginning of the month, my cravings went from moderate to very high. But, I can honestly say that the original meter, without my cutting and pasting, makes more sense now. I still don’t have any moments where I think “chocolate wouldn’t taste good right now,” but I do have a surprising amount of moments where I could “take it or leave it.”
  • Acknowledging both the craving, and the reason behind it (boredom? stress?) works so much better than pretending the elephant in the room (that twenty-foot tall brownie) really isn’t there. You can’t control what you don’t acknowledge.
  • Being in control of your food choices brings more pleasure to eating, not less, plus there’s none of that icky guilt residue.
  • It is absolutely possible for a chocolate lover to eat mindfully, but the type of chocolate matters (get the dark stuff, the best you can afford).
  • Mindfulness is for everybody, even skeptical misanthropes like me. In fact, I’m thinking I need to start applying it to other elements of my life, beyond eating.
  • A single month, even one containing many tumbles off the wagon, can set you well on the way to instilling new eating habits. As my month went on, I had more successful days than days when I lost control. Just think what two months will do.

And with that, I’m going to go eat my day’s piece of chocolate, ever sooooo slowly. Thank you for spending this month with me. I hope you’ve been trying some of Dr. Albers’ techniques and have found them as helpful as I have. Here’s to our mutual, mindful eating success!

 

27
Feb

Strap On The Feed Bag

Until last night, I hadn’t been out to eat since dining at an upscale Asian restaurant with hubs at the very beginning of this experiment. That night, I was mostly focused on how to wrestle the biggest share of our “shared” chocolate dessert. Last night, however, hubs and I and the kids went to one of the kids’ favorite restaurants to celebrate the completion of ice skating lessons. It was a “family restaurant,” one that serves breakfast all day, which means my little guy can get a heap of pancakes and my especially picky daughter can at least find some grilled cheese and French fries. And they can both color the placemats.

The whole experience made me sad, in a much bigger way than when we ate at the same place several months ago. I couldn’t find anything I wanted to eat, though the menu was huge. Stacks of pancakes and waffles leave me uncomfortably full, especially for an evening meal. I’m a vegetarian, so that left out 90% of the menu right there. I ended up with a spinach salad with apples and nuts (hold the chicken). It was fine, but certainly not something the restaurant is known for, and thus not especially tasty.

What the restaurant is known for, as are so many others, is providing the largest quantity of food imaginable at the lowest price. This is what really made me sad because I know that our fast-food culture teaches us to value exactly this: Sub-par food in vast quantities at cheap prices. And then in the headlines this morning, a new Gallup poll finding: In the U.S., 27.1% of adults were obese in 2013. This is the highest rate in Gallup’s six-year tracking history, and it includes a new high among those who are “morbidly obese.”

When I was a kid, going out to eat was a rare treat. We ate quite sensibly at home, but when we went out, my mom would bring her coupons, and we’d “save up” by not eating much during the day, knowing we would absolutely stuff ourselves in order to “get our money’s worth.” My family didn’t have a lot of money, so I can sympathize with the impulse, but honestly, we were paying to give ourselves stomachaches. We were paying to line up at a trough, covered by a sneeze guard. It’s the kind of place where my husband will mutter under his breath, strap on the feed bag, like we’re all beasts of burden.

This is absolutely not the message about food I want to give to my own children. When we were out last night, I kept thinking of a little bistro in our town, which I haven’t been to in many months, and really longing for it. It’s expensive, so it’s not a place we can frequent, but eating there is an experience. The food is locally grown, sustainably farmed, artfully prepared, expertly served. Every single step, from the planting of the seed that grew into the wheat that made the flour for the bread, which is heaven in the mouth, seems to be done mindfully. It’s a place where you eat slowly, appreciating the presentation on the plate, the aromas, the complex flavors.

I realized last night at the family restaurant that a real change had happened to me this month. Do you know that when I looked at the cardboard stand-up on the table, featuring a dessert that amounted to a bowlful of broken brownie bits covered in chocolate sauce…I felt…nothing at all. I didn’t want it. I couldn’t believe what my mind was telling me, but it was true. All the cues in that place that are meant to get a person to over-eat had the opposite effect on me. I left still hungry. And I decided that, when I do go out, I’m really going to try to make sure it’s something special.

That said, I’m a busy, working parent, and I know not every one of our family’s meals can be a special experience. But we do eat together. And we do cook our own food, though it’s usually nothing fancy by any means. Most days, I’m just trying to get a couple food groups into my kids before the table conversation turns to poop jokes. Still, I’m working on getting us all to slow down, to appreciate our food a little more, to listen to the cues our bodies are giving us (about what tastes we enjoy, about whether we’re full) and keep foremost in mind that eating can, and should be, a pleasurable experience for the body and the soul.

26
Feb

Help! I Can’t Find My Chakras!

Perhaps I can’t find them because I had to look them up on Wikipedia. Now that I have a definition, I still can’t find them. Perhaps they do not exist. Or do they?  You see, as a human being, I am generally most comfortable when I’m a seething mass of contradictions.

When I first signed on to this project, the term “mindful eating” made me picture people finding their chakras, in loose fitting clothing, in the lotus position, crystal jewelry, incense, chanting “Ommmmm.” That frightened me a little bit, as I am not, by my nature, a mindful person, at least not in the sense of really being in tune with, (and here’s the kicker), owning my emotions.

A few weeks ago, I watched a video on Dr. Albers’ FB page concerning pairing different types of chocolates with various yoga poses. I’ll admit, I thought it was a joke, like a video from one of my favorite satirical magazines, The Onion. If you are a practitioner of chocolate-yoga, more power to you. But, if you are more of a jaded, speed-walking, type A, for whom eating is an exercise in filling needs, and wants, with little thought to the whole process, then maybe you and I should talk.

Because although I might be described as a bit, shall we say, uptight, I decided for the benefit of this experiment to give mindful eating a whirl. In addition to the tips I’ve gained from Dr. Albers’ online postings, I’ve begun reading her new book, EatQ. (Note: I am not a paid employee; I purchased my own book. Also, when I think something suX with a capital X, I will tell you so…for example…chocolate-yoga.)

It seems a little bit backwards, reading the book at the end of my month-long experiment. That’s just how the timing worked out for me, but in a way, I’m glad it did. I’ve had several weeks to pay attention to my eating habits, to learn what triggers my cravings. And so I’m approaching the book already armed with a personal knowledge I would not have had, and am thus able to fully appreciate, and benefit from, the tools found therein.

Mindfulness is not the new-agey, chakra-balancing voodoo I feared it was. Not at all. It’s actually a very rational approach to eating, no gimmicks, no diets, just a very sane, logical approach to food choices that ultimately will put me in control. And I like being in control. So, if you’re hesitant at all, please know that there are strategies here for everyone, not just the free spirits among us.

25
Feb

The Exercise Equation

Here I am, nearing the end of my chocolate blogging month, and I realized I haven’t mentioned exercise at all. Odd, since that’s clearly the other half of the healthy living equation. All this mindful eating is great, but if you’re not moving, you probably won’t reach the goals you have regarding your weight and fitness level.

I’m sure I’m not the only one being dive-bombed with crackpot messages from various media sources that we just need to find that magic food to melt our fat away (Is it bananas? Or is that the food we should NEVER eat? Arrghhh, I can’t remember!). If we find that magic food (or pill), then we shouldn’t have to do any icky exercise, which might induce sweating and make our hair go flat.

I’ve never been one of those people who tries to find a way to get out of exercising. There’s never been a time in my life when I haven’t been engaged in, and more or less enjoyed, being physically active. On the food end of things, I’ve had a fairly healthy diet, have amassed the knowledge of what I should eat, but have still let cravings derail me time and again.

This kind of lifestyle made me a very fit 20-something. Then, my 30s arrived. I added two children, adding pounds with each that did not all go away. Exercise fell to the middle, or bottom, or my to-do list, which meant it was happening once or twice a week instead of four or five times. And I snacked, mindlessly, out of stretches of boredom or stress.

Slowly, I adapted to a new normal, thinking, well, I’ll never get my body back to what it used to be, but maybe I can keep it where it is. But something snapped when I hit 40 (I’m 41 now). I didn’t want to be “where I was” for the rest of my life. Yet, I fully realized how much harder it is to keep weight off in this age bracket, knowing, too, it’s not going to get any easier.

Bu I didn’t start with the food. I’ve never been on a “diet” in my life. My mother used to try every grapefruit/cabbage soup/celery fad that came out in her “women’s” magazines, and I saw how crazy it made her (and how much more weight she gained).

I simply decided to kick my exercise up a notch. Last year, I tried running. Bought some fancy shoes and took my new dog around the block. I wasn’t new to the sport. I’d been a runner in high school, but of the sprinter variety (100m and 200m). A full lap around the track was a bit overkill for me, then and now. But, soooo many of my friends had taken up running! Look, there they go, down my street, looking very fit and *sort of* happy!

I hated running. And it’s pretty clear that if you hate a particular form of exercise, you are not going to do it much. At the beginning of this year, I signed on to a Crossfit gym, and I’m loving it. This is not a commercial for Crossfit, however. It’s definitely not for everyone. The point is that you have to find what fits with your own goals and personality.

My new exercise routine is very difficult, which is why I’m currently only doing it three days a week (today is an off day, and I’m having trouble lifting my very sore arms over my head). But when I’m doing an activity I enjoy, I don’t mind “difficult.” I like pushing my body to see what it can do.

The crazy, lightbulb moment for me this month has been this: controlling my cravings is also very difficult, and the payoff can be just as rewarding. I honestly don’t know why I’ve never consciously made this connection before. I suppose one reason is because the physical aspect of getting in shape is much easier to see. I can feel, in my sore muscles, how hard I worked yesterday. I can set a timer to how many minutes of cardio I completed, and if I wanted to, could track how many calories I burned.

But, it’s much harder to keep track of the (hundreds?) of decisions I made yesterday about food, and thus harder to see my progress. Yet, I know there were at least a few moments when I stopped myself as I approached the kitchen, really registering why I was in there. Was I actually hungry? Or was I just bored, or stressed? Every one of these mindful moments deserves to be counted, as much as every bench press.

My new goal is to give the same attention to my mental muscle as I’m giving to my biceps. If I can get the whole system in sync, it will be very sweet indeed.

23
Feb

No Bake Engery Bites

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23
Feb

Pure, Unadulterated Chocolate Fun

I spent my afternoon at a superhero bowling party (my son’s) complete with chocolatey brownies (one with a big Spiderman candle) in lieu of a cake. My son doesn’t like all that goopy frosting that gets piled on bakery cakes and cupcakes. He likes his sweets simple. A brownie, with nothing in it, or on it. At the local ice creamery, which boasts dozens of delectable flavors, he chooses chocolate. Every time. A reminder here, that it’s my daughter who actually has the chocolate cravings. My son is just a dabbler in chocolate world, compared to her (and her mother…ahem).

We had plenty of healthy snacks at the party, too, like carrots, blueberries, strawberries, grapes. I labeled each food with a super-power (e.g., the carrots gave them laser vision). The kids helped themselves to hearty portions of the healthy stuff. When the brownies came, they probably weren’t too hungry. That didn’t stop many of the kids from having seconds, but to be fair, they were very small brownies.

Some observations: The kids ate what they wanted and stopped eating when they didn’t want any more. Kids aren’t afraid to leave half a brownie on a plate, whereas an adult might feel they were “wasting food.” Most adults declined my offer of a brownie. Without really thinking about what I was doing, I became a bit of a pusher. “Are you sure you don’t want one? They are really good!” Now I feel badly about this. They said, “No thanks,” so why didn’t I leave them alone?

I think it’s really part of my background, and I’m sure I’m not alone here, that a celebration isn’t complete without desserts. To turn down a treat is almost akin to not participating in the event itself. I did not turn down my own offer of a brownie. But I only had two (remember…very teensy brownies). And when I was cleaning up the kitchen this evening and transferring the remainders into another container, and I really thought I’d snag another two or three, I resisted. I put them away and retreated to the living room to happily play with the new remote control robot. And, you know, within a minute or two, I’d forgotten all about the brownies. Craving averted.

 

22
Feb

He Loves Me, He Loves Me Not

So, how’s your V-day chocolate stash? Is that heart-shaped box looking a little empty? Whenever I received one of those boxes, I’d set out with a plan to eat one chocolate a day, but then I’d cheat. Maybe the first one was so good, I just had to have another. Or maybe I accidentally chose a chocolate-covered cherry, felt cheated, and had to have another to get the taste out of my mouth (see previous post, Hey! You Got Fruit in My Chocolate!). Regardless, that boxful never lasted long.

But I haven’t received Valentines’ chocolates in years. Now, I know you’re thinking, why on earth would I need a gift of chocolates when I have my big bag of goodies from Dr. Albers hiding in my closet? You are correct. This year, it was a no brainer for the hubs.

In previous years, however, he walked a delicate line, and I’d like to publicly apologize for all the angst that must have caused him. Of course we’ve been culturally conditioned to believe chocolate=love, and so, if your partner loves you, would he or she not give you chocolates, especially on that most important of Hallmark holidays?

But, if you’re married to me, there are many questions to consider before making (or not making) such a purchase.

Here’s a sampling of my potential reactions if he does buy me chocolate: What are you doing, trying to sabotage my whole healthful eating plan? Don’t you want me to lose the last of that baby weight? Or have you just quit caring how I look? How could you buy me these chocolates???

Now, if he doesn’t buy me chocolate: Don’t you think I deserve chocolate? Don’t you think I can handle the temptation of having chocolate around? Do you think I’m fat?  Or have you just quit caring how I look? How could you not buy me chocolates???

And so, we made the decision a few years ago that there will be no gifts on Valentine’s Day. There will be love *pretty much* every day. And with the advent of my new chocolate plan, there will be chocolate every day as well, dark chocolate, eaten mindfully, a gift I give myself.

21
Feb

Chocolate Tea, You Make Me Sad

Your handsome packaging enticed me, and despite the fact I’m in a monogamous relationship with chocolate coffee (venti mocha, anyone?), I’ll admit it; I was intrigued.

I like to start my morning with a freshly ground blend of mocha-flavored beans. I’m currently hooked on Larry’s Beans’ Mightier Mocha Java, which I have delivered in multi-packs as I never want to run out. I limit myself to a large-ish mug in the a.m. since I’ve learned any coffee in the afternoon messes with my precious sleep units.

Tea, however, is a different beast. I can, and in the colder months often do, have a small cup of Earl Gray in the early afternoon as a nice pick-me-up, without any insomnia resulting. Could it be that I might have my afternoon tea and my chocolate all mixed together in one wonderful cup?

I was a little nervous, but very optimistic (again, the handsome packaging). I took a whiff inside the opened can while I boiled water and found my nose wrinkling a bit. Not the olfactory pleasure I was hoping for…but still optimistic while I steeped the tea, and finally, took a sip.

What a disappointment. All that anticipation, and…

…Oh, chocolate tea… I’m afraid to say we’re just not a good match. First, it seems like you’re going through some kind of identity crisis. Do you want to be tea or do you want to be chocolate? Because I’m not tasting either in quantities to help me decide. As tea, you are just so, so bitter and odd tasting, and as chocolate, well, this is no kind of chocolate experience I’d like to repeat.

Did I drink the whole cup? Of course I did, for the sake of the experiment, but I did it with a smirk of contempt. You had one shot with me, chocolate tea, and you blew it.

(As always, dear readers, don’t take one curmudgeon’s word for it. Do cheat on your coffee, and report back.)

20
Feb

Temporary Malfunction

How does Dr. Stavnezer get right inside my head? Read her article on why we crave chocolate during PMS if you haven’t already and then join me back here. Done? Okay, now, do you recognize yourself in her article at all?

This was perfect timing for me, as I found myself waking up yesterday with an incontrollable urge to, both smash things, and eat things. Since I couldn’t find anything to smash, without consequences, I looked for high-fat, high-calorie things to eat. Did I eat my daily ounce of chocolate? Um, yes, but let’s multiply that by three or four, or ten ounces. I know I was just writing about how great this experiment was going and how I was really taking charge, but yesterday just blew that to pieces. Today, though? Back on track. Cravings minimal. Bluebirds and rainbow-colored unicorns dancing around my head.

One look at the calendar and my suspicions were confirmed. Oh yes, it’s that time again, that time when I temporarily take leave of my senses. Of course we know women experience hormonal changes before our periods, but as Dr. Stavnezer’s article explains, this does not account entirely for cravings. In other words, we can’t just blame our hormones. Dr. Stavnezer writes, “Experience teaches us that ‘that time of the month’ is a set of special circumstances when giving into a chocolate craving will be met with understanding rather than guilt and shame.”

This just means that we gals have each others’ backs, as in, oh, it’s that time of the month, of course, have an extra piece of pie. You’re feeling crazy? I hear you, sister. It is widely accepted in our culture that women have PMS and react to it by indulging in their cravings. The question is, how much of this is a reaction to actual processes taking place in our bodies and how much is learned behavior (chocolate tastes good, I want chocolate at this time of the month, chocolate will help me deal with it, etc.). And does it really matter? Personally, I’m okay with falling off the wagon, if it’s only one day a month, and I hop right back up there.

On a related note, I’ve got my eye on the hubs…he took a half bar (!) of my orange flavored chocolate the other day, and I’ve also noticed that he gets extra cranky a couple days every month. Where is the researcher who can show me a study on male PMS? Because I am absolutely sure (based on my sample size of one hubs) that it exists!

18
Feb

My Preciousssss

Yet another snow day. I’m keeping busy reading The Hobbit to my 4- and 6-year old. If you are a Tolkien fan, you’re familiar with the “one ring to rule them all” and the hypnotic hold that ring has over anyone who comes into contact with it. Now I won’t pretend that chocolate has quite the same hold over me…but let’s just say at the start of this month, I was clutching my bag of goodies, hissing at anyone who came near it, much like Gollum with his precious ring deep in his cave.

So the fact that I willingly decided to share my chocolate today, with my little children no less, is an accomplishment and I think reflects how I’m starting to get a little more control over my cravings. What surprised me even more was how the kids were actually able to eat their piece of chocolate mindfully.

Of course when I announced that they were going to try mommy’s chocolate experiment and retrieved the bag from its hiding spot, they started to get a little delirious. “Dump it out!” they yelled, and I did, emptying the bag on the dining room table. They quickly ruled out anything with fruit or nuts, both of them choosing a dark chocolate square filled with caramel. I didn’t let them gulp it down. They had to look at it, smell it, and finally taste just a corner.

They didn’t know what expect. They have no experience with dark chocolate. If it had been a Hershey’s bar, I doubt they could have eaten it so slowly. But they didn’t have any expectations in this case. Didn’t know that when they bit into it, their faces would light up as the caramel hit their tongues and they discovered that this dark chocolate, which smelled like “coffee” would be wonderful. The other adjectives I heard, between bites, were “tart,” “chewy,” and “good.” (They aren’t exactly food critics.) The kids did so well that I promised them, if they could continue to eat thoughtfully like this, they could have a piece of my dark chocolate every day. We’ll see if this cuts down on any begging for sweeter desserts. Fingers crossed.

17
Feb

OMG! It’s Working!!!

Quick update today from yours truly, Ms. Skeptic, Ms.-I’m-Not-Sure-What-This-Whole-Month-Is-Going-To-Prove-But-At-Least-I-Got-A-Bag-Of-Chocolate.

My cravings appear to be (gasp) decreasing! I do seem to have them earlier in the day, say mid-morning, but if I slowly eat my one piece of dark chocolate at that time, I’m good to go for the remainder. That’s great news, but here’s where it gets really interesting.

My six year old daughter, who shares everything except sweets, inexplicably offered me three pink M&Ms from a mini bag she brought home from her class party. Not one to turn down such a rare offer, I quickly popped them into my mouth.

Within seconds, I was eyeing the rest, wondering how I could best distract her to go in for the grab. I was so consumed with desire for those little monogrammed lovelies that I had to leave the room to get control over my senses. Pathetic…and yet, very important information. You see, at the start of the month, I just wasn’t sure what difference it made in terms of what kind of chocolate I was eating. Now I believe it makes a huge difference. Was it a fluke? I’ll keep you posted.